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Balloons for Nicholas

May 23, 2014 By Lauren

Nicholas' balloons

On Tuesday morning I asked the question:

What can I do?

I’ve been following the journey of the Sauer family as their son, Ben, battled a brain tumor. His time on Earth ended last week and it left me wondering how I could honor him and his family. I knew I couldn’t necessarily do anything specifically for them, but I wanted to ensure, if only to myself, that his short life has made a permanent difference to me.

I soon decided that I wanted to do something for a family who had lost a child. But what?

The answer came quite quickly.

I’ve mentioned Nicole on the blog before. She lost her eight year old son, Nicholas, in January. Back in March, when she first told me about him, she mentioned that he absolutely loved balloons and his family was thinking of releasing red balloons on his birthday.

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It just so happens that his birthday is today, a mere three days after I started looking for something to do.

A request for volunteers quickly brought in several people who wanted to get involved. The task was simple: On Friday, Nicholas’ ninth birthday, release red balloons to remember him and honor him. And to let his family know that although we never had a chance to meet him, he is not forgotten. It’s a small gesture, to be sure, but it is from the heart and I hope it brings a smile to his family on a difficult day.

Happy birthday, Nick. These balloons are all for you.

Balloons for Nick- Kansas

 

canadian balloons

 

maine balloons

 

vermont balloons

 

vermont balloons

 

florida balloons

 

florida balloons

 

balloons

 

 

 

Filed Under: Random Tagged With: balloons, ben sauer, birthday, loss, Nicholas

About Lauren

If you enjoy picture-perfect home decor, perfectly prepared recipes, and perfectly behaved children, you've come to the wrong place. Meet Lauren. She isn't perfect, but she's perfectly real.

Comments

  1. Helene Baker says

    May 23, 2014 at 10:56 pm

    What a beautiful and thoughtful idea! Happy Birthday Nicholas! Thanks Lauren

  2. Christina says

    May 24, 2014 at 12:58 am

    I know Nicole well and as a mother who lost my 15 year old daughter Taylor in a car crash last October in Bucksport, I can vouch personally that there is no other pain like losing a child. So, when I heard about Nicholas, I made sure I was that mom that gave Nicole that understanding hug that only 2 mom’s can understand when they share losing a child. Nicole has been an amazing support for me and I love this idea. Another thing we both share is the hard and horrible month of May now. Mother’s day….then facing that first birthday without our child here….As we celebrate my daughter’s 16th birthday on Monday. We too are doing a balloon release from the softball field from her favorite position first base. Way to go red balloon supporters! I’m sure Nicholas is smiling!

    • Lauren says

      May 24, 2014 at 7:38 am

      Oh I am so sorry Christina. I’ll be thinking of your family, on Monday especially.

  3. Kristen says

    May 24, 2014 at 7:43 am

    This was so thoughtful Lauren, and I am so happy we could participate. Beautiful post and sentiment.

  4. Nicole Gould says

    May 24, 2014 at 8:37 am

    I cannot thank any of you enough. I am overwhelmed by the people who took their time to remember my son. I can not convey how touched we are, because while Nicholas was a huge presence in our lives, he lived a “little life” where he was most comfortable, in our home. I cannot even begin to imagine the smile on his face when all the red balloons started arriving for him. Lauren, I have no words for this gesture, but will assure you ALL of the tears for this were happy ones! <3

  5. Brittany says

    May 24, 2014 at 9:32 am

    That is awesome!

  6. Kellie says

    May 26, 2014 at 11:54 am

    I am now in tears in Florida. What a beautiful gesture & the outpouring of people across 2 countries releasing those balloons. Wow! I have no words…and now I need to go get some Kleenex.

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